oh Trudy, i would never resent you! you've been trying to help, i understand that.

i'd just really like to know who i'm dealing with before i do anything, it's strange to be expected to answer so many things about myself when i don't know who i'm speaking to! - and before i make any decisions about Adia i want to see what sort of credentials they have. i'm curious to what kind of organization they are, if they have legal pull that would make them able to forcibly take Adia or not.

ech, financial records! all i have is the spreadsheet that details expenditures and the paypal archives. i didn't exactly get a receipt from the family every time i gave them a small fortune to let me feed their child! i hope they don't want anything too official....

augh. i never expected something like this to happen, i thought our biggest concern was getting care for Adia.

it's usually the grandmother who goes to the hospital with me. if they'll let me, i'll be happy to be the guardian, and i do intend (as i promised the family) to pay for the expenses.

god, i keep thinking of how people kept talking about buying Adia on the thread, and how i got desperate once and said i just wanted to take her and nurse her back to health myself...i bet that looks just wonderfully to these people! sigh.

i should be meeting the family this afternoon, hopefully they will show up as planned - i expect they will because i promised them money!

love,
nutmeg