by trudy:

I will contact the wife and see if she can give me info that you are requesting..I wish I were with you...Just let me know what time you are going and who is going to be with you..If the family is there were you going to be the guardian? Are you going to pay for it...? The reason I am asking are you going to check her in with your name...or the Jyothi Yenutaya name? When you go to the hospital does everyone go or is it different each time? I'm just trying to determine what they are going to be looking for...You and Jyothi ? or Grandma and you and Jyothi? If someone is going to meet with you I'm sure they will want to know this...

Also you do know that every hospital has a social services dept. don't you? Especially one that large...but then again you are leary that she will be taken away...hmmmm..I wish I had a crystal ball...I just don't want you to resent me for getting involved. If you want me to back away I will..Just let me know..I know that you are torn..you have to do what's right for you and Adia...I don't know what else to say...I have just read so much and have had so many questions thrown at me!

ok..I am going to bed...yawn.......let me know what you decide...so I can make some calls if I have to...I will not think less of you no matter what your decision...I will tell you this though..They will want to see records of some kind...since people are donating to the Adia Cause...I hate buracratecy, but working in it for 30yrs. it's unavoidable...Just a Heads up....Trudy